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The Lost Art of Being a Good Neighbor

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  On Tuesday, we talked about how everything in life seems to have become so complicated. From birthday parties to raising children, sometimes I wonder when we started making the simplest things so difficult. But that conversation got me thinking about something else. Whatever happened to being a good neighbor? And I’m not talking about the kind of neighbor who waves at you from the driveway twice a year or gives your Facebook post a thumbs-up. I’m talking about the kind of neighbor who knew your parents, your grandparents, your children, and probably what you had for supper last night. The kind who would show up at your front door with a plate of food, borrow a cup of sugar, or tell your mama when you were somewhere you weren’t supposed to be. Especially that last one. Growing up in a small community, I can promise you there was no such thing as getting away with anything. If you did something wrong on one end of the holler, your parents knew about it before you made it h...

When Did Everything Become So Complicated?

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I have a question, and it’s one I’ve been thinking about lately. When did everything become so complicated? And I mean everything . When I was growing up, birthday parties consisted of a homemade cake, a few balloons, and a bunch of kids running around the backyard. If you were lucky you got to take home a little plastic bag filled with candy. And you know what? We thought it was the greatest day ever. Now, somewhere along the way, birthday parties have turned into full-blown productions. We have balloon arches, elaborate themes, matching outfits, professional photographers, and cakes that cost more than my mortgage. Don’t get me wrong. I love a good party. I’ll decorate until my feet hurt and make enough food to feed half the county. But when did we start feeling like we had to? And it’s not just birthday parties. When Did Ordinary Stop Being Enough? Remember when Christmas was about decorating the tree, baking cookies, and trying to figure out which present under the tree was yours?...